Why didn’t I learn all this sooner?

This is one of the questions people often ask themselves at the end of the training weekend that I have been running for a few months on the fight against poverty through wealth creation. This training weekend is a program of the wealth creation academy – Le grenier. I observed that at the end of this training several participants are won by a feeling of revolt or better of disappointment because they say to themselves that if they had learned all his teachings earlier, their life would not be what it is today.

Some wonder whether there is an age limit at which it is no longer possible to change their life because they believe they are already old. Taking the example of an old lady who had just left us at 110 years old, I answer by asking them whether they should also live 110 years old like this women, do they think they are not entitled to a better life for the 30-year-olds, the 40 years they have left to live? Are we in the world to live a mediocre existence or a quality existence, to survive or to live fully?

Your point of power is the present, here and now. There is no point in spending your life lamenting about the past or dreaming of a better future while you continue to do things the way you always do. Isn’t that past is gone and what remains in your mind is just the memory of an already gone past, which no longer exists? Do you know a person who has already changed the conditions of his existence by dint of lamenting?

If you don’t decide to change your thoughts, feelings, and actions now, your condition of life will not change. Do you know that your current results are the fruit of your programming, your conditioning? How do you want to change your life if you don’t decide to let go the negative thoughts that generate or reinforce this negative conditioning that is at the root of the results you deplore?

There is no age limit for learning to do better and improve the quality of your life. The important thing is to get on the train of change as soon as it is at the station and continue your way to a chosen destination and not the default destination to which your negative conditioning is subconsciously leading you.

Jacques Mutikwele

Certified Coach (Personal Development)