A few years ago, a friend of mine told me about the difficulties he was going through. He was saying that nothing was going well in his life and that he did not see how he was going to get out of it. His mind was invaded by the fear of a future that was becoming more and more uncertain. Wanting to understand the origin of this thought that inhabited him and of this fear it aroused, I discovered that when he thought about his life, he always tended to connect it to an experience that had created a lot of discomfort and suffering in the past. He constantly thought about this experience and suddenly, he lost all hope on the possibility of creating a better future. He remained stuck in this experience. And it was from it that he considered his future. That is what most people do.
Many people tend to let their past control their future. As they have had an unhappy experience with their work, their business, their spouse, their boss, their money etc. They constantly connect to the negative energy of this inconclusive experience to predict their future. Suddenly, they themselves begin to vibrate under the impulse of this energy which attracts even more negative thoughts which reinforce this feeling of fear that they experience.
But what they do without knowing is that by constantly clinging only to this negative experience, they use the negative energy that this experience releases to stimulate thoughts which demobilize them, which make them doubt themselves and their ability to open to other experiences. They intimidate and marginalize themselves. Because they make themselves believe that they are worthless, that everything is gambling, that there is no way out, that they can only depend on other people, etc. Whereas, if they stop clinging to this negative energy of the past and decide to turn with great serenity and confidence to the future, they can open to the possibility of making other more rewarding experiences: finding a better job, meeting new people, doing a new business that works, in short, creating a new future that meets their deepest aspirations.
Why then continue to inflict so much grief and pain on yourself by constantly connecting to negative energies from your past experiences when there is nothing stopping you from looking towards the future and connecting to the positive energy contained in the vision of a wonderful future to which you are entitled to? In the same way that you spend your time thinking only about what went wrong in your life, in the same way you can also train your mind to turn to your dreams, your ambitions, your aspirations and your projects. Why not, for example, hold on to the energy contained in the joy and happiness that you will feel when you realize your dream? Do not tell me you do not have a dream. A person who no longer dreams is a dead person.
Free yourself from all the negative energies of the past that prevent you from envisaging a different future. Free yourself from this heavy burden that you carry with you all the time and have the courage to embrace new possibilities that are more rewarding and more energizing, new habits that uplift you, and new behaviors that mobilize you towards a new vision. Expend your energies to create this vision to provide you with a better future to which you are entitled. If you decide to focus on thoughts that bring you more joy, more comfort, and more happiness you will be able to create new experiences that will also bring to you more joy, comfort, and happiness.
Coach Jacques Mutikwele,
Entrepreneur and international speaker.
www.jacquesmutikwele.com
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